What is the ultimate goal in having biblical love for our children? It is nothing less than desiring for the salvation of their souls. Our goal is not that our children be happy, successful, popular, or live out their dreams...the chief end of mothering is to want our children to repent of their sins, believe and trust in Jesus Christ, and share that wonderful gospel to the world.
JC Ryle states:
This is the thought that should be uppermost on your mind in all you do for your children. In every step you take about them, in every plan, scheme, and arrangement that concerns them, do not leave out that mighty question, "How will this affect their souls?"
We must intentionally make this a priority in our mothering.